Last week, Sasha turned one. With the second, you get some sort of wisdom (and confidence) that you don’t have with the first. Wisdom on so many things, including what baby things make this whole parenting thing, a wee bit easier. I’m calling this my “master baby list.” This list will have everything that I’d recommend and everything that I heavily relied on for the first year from car seats to strollers to everything in between.
Bugaboo Stroller (sold at Bloomingdales, Nordstrom and Amazon): Considering I use my stroller more than our car, a good stroller is a must – especially if you’re like me and like to walk a lot. With Nate, we had the Bugaboo Cameleon and believe it or not, it’s the one we’re still using with Sasha. I actually don’t think Bugaboo makes this model anymore but in general, they make a wonderful stroller and have so many models. After using it for almost 4 years and some mild tuning (we replaced our handle ‘stickers’ with new ones), it’s still serving us really well. It’s smooth as hell and so beautifully made. The only downfall is the lack of a lot of storage. There is some storage but not as much as say, the UPPAbaby Vista. I don’t have personal experience with the UPPAbaby but I know it’s another very popular choice. Many of my friends have it and are extremely happy with it. I’d recommend going to a place like BuyBuy Baby and testing out a few to see which one works best for your needs.
Doona Stroller (sold on Amazon, Pottery Barn Kids & Target): For the first year, whenever we had any plans that revolved the car, this was our go-to. It’s an infant carseat and stroller in one. It’s easy to use, safe and if you’re someone who travels, whether by car or plane, this makes life so much easier. There’s no taking your baby out of the carseat and no annoying contraptions to lug around and put together. It’s truly a brilliant invention! I WISH we had it with Nate and I basically cried the day Sasha no longer fit in it. Also if you’re dining out, it’s nice and compact and rolls right up to a restaurant table. Read all the glowing reviews online. They’re 100% accurate!
Doona Stroller Cons: There are so many pros, but two cons to consider. To start, it’s pretty heavy when you need to lift it into the actual car, especially as your baby grows. Secondly, it’s expensive considering you only use it for a year. Taking that into consideration and knowing what I know after using it for a year, I’d 100% still get it. Like I said, I wish we had it with Nate. It made our life so much easier.
Nuna PIPA Car Seat (sold at Nordstrom & Pottery Barn Kids): We had a different carseat when Nate was an infant (The Graco) and this one is far superior. It’s tested as one of the safest in the market and compared to a few others we tried, it’s also a bit lighter which makes a big difference. I don’t think it’s the best if you’re planning to travel a lot or carrying the carseat in and out of the car a ton. It’s a bit heavy for that, but if it mainly lives in the car, it’s an excellent option. Now, if your carseat is being used as a stroller on a regular basis, consider the Doona above.
JJ Cole Cocoon Car Seat Cover (sold at Amazon, Target & BuyBuy Baby): Nate was a spring baby, so I didn’t necessarily have to rack my brain on ways to keep him extra warm. Sasha was born in November, so I was really looking for a little something extra, other than just a blanket to keep her warm, yet safe in the carseat. This cocoon was the perfect, cozy solution.
Transportation For Moms of Multiples:
Baby Jogger Citi Mini II Double Stroller (sold on Amazon and Target): After I had Sasha, I debated two things concerning a double stroller: 1) Do we really need one? and 2) If I do get one, which one should I get? We attempted using our Bugaboo with the footboard attachment but found it very uncomfortable and awkward to push around. Ultimately, I knew having one would make our lives way easier. Nate doesn’t love to walk for more than a few blocks at a time and we love to take walks around our neighborhood. After consulting with a ton of my mom friends and reared 500+ reviews, we ended up with the Citi Jogger. Aesthetically, it’s not the chicest choice but I don’t even care. It’s smooth, easy to maneuver and fairly light considering I’m pushing around almost 65-70lbs of children.
Lounging & At Home Containment:
BabyBjörn Bouncer (sold at Amazon, Nordstrom and Target): We didn’t own this one with Nate and apparently, we’ve been missing out. My best friend passed hers down to me and it’s been one of my most used baby items. It’s light, it’s portable and it’s adjustable, whether you want it reclined or not. I found myself using this every single day, numerous times a day. I bring it into my closet. I bring it into the shower. I bring it into the kitchen when I’m cooking. I bring it when we’re going over someones house. You get the point! Highly, highly recommend.
Fisher Price Cradle N’ Swing (sold at Target and Amazon): We had the same swing with Nate, and quite frankly, it has been our savior. Whenever we need a comfortable place to put Sasha, it’s been our go-to. She’s napped in it countless times and most of the time, it keeps her nice and happy. One thing to note: I had someone ask me if both the BabyBjörn and the Fisher Price swing is necessary. Necessary is a strong word, but I’d say we used both a lot. I also find that they serve slightly different purposes. The swing we used all the time from birth until about four months. As I mentioned, both Nate and Sasha napped in it and hung out and were content for longer periods of time. On the other hand, the Babybjorn bouncer was used more from 6/7 weeks and we’re still using on a daily basis. Clearly, getting both is a pain and expensive so if you’re able to get a hand-me-down from a friend in either or, go for it! These things are so short-lived. which is annoying, but we really did use both a ton.
Baby Sit-Me-Up (sold on Amazon and buybuyBABY): Once Sasha was a bit too big for the Baby Bjorn and the bouncer, we still needed a place to put her somewhere. Admittedly, the Sit-Me-Up is another thing that’s short-lived, but for the few months that we used it, it was so convenient to have another place to put her. At one point, you’re just shifting the baby from point a to point by, but you gotta do what you gotta do.
Pop n’ Play with Mat (sold separately): This could be categorized under at home containment, travel (we always pack it) or a sanity saver. This thing is a must. We used it with Nate and whipped it back out when Sasha became mobile. When we take any road trip, we always take this thing with us as it’s easy to fold up and pack. The mat that goes inside is sold separately, but definitely something I’d recommend as there’s no cushion otherwise. We didn’t have the mat for Nate, so we typically left it on the rug or lined it with blankets, but the insert is a better solution.
Dohm White Noise Machine (sold at Amazon, BuyBuy Baby and Bed Bath & Beyond): Easily one of our most used purchases. Helps create a sleepy environment and drowns out any noise that may be disruptive. We actually just got our second one – one to place near Sasha and one that we still use with Nate.
Halo Bassinet (sold at Amazon, Nordstrom and Target): For an option other than the SNOO, we used the Halo with Nate and it was great. In fact, it’s been going around my friend circle for the last 4 years and it’s currently on baby #5. If I didn’t have the SNOO, I’d continue using the Halo.
The Ollie Swaddle (sold on Amazon and Target): I should preface this by saying that if you’re using the SNOO, you don’t necessarily need the Ollie Swaddle. The SNOO can only be used with the swaddles that are made for it. However, if your baby is sleeping in a bassinet or the crib, The Ollie is probably the best swaddle that I’ve used. It’s quite expensive and there are other great swaddles out there, but The Ollie just makes the entire swaddle thing, a little bit easier. It also comes in the most beautiful box and packaging, so something that would make a really nice gift.
Pumping Bra: I’m not going to lie, I didn’t do extensive research when selecting a pumping bra. I asked a friend of mine which one she purchased, she sent me this link from Amazon and I immediately checked out of my cart. It’s comfortable and does the job. Whichever one you decide to go with, a pumping bra is a must so you’re at least able to be handsfree.
BabyBuddha Mobile Pump (sold at Amazon and Target): With my insurance, I was lucky enough to get the Spectra. While it does the job and some call it the best pump that’s covered by insurance, I didn’t love the fact that I was unable to do anything else while pumping, except pump. BabyBuddha is small, but strong. It also gives the ability to do other things around the house, making the use of my pumping time, a lot more efficient. One thing to note: I know there are other mobile pumps out there, like the Willow, but the BabyBuddha is the only one I’ve tried so I’m unable to compare.
Haakaa Manual Pump (sold at Amazon and Target): The best $13 tool for catching milk (hands-free) that leaks from the opposite breast while nursing. Before knowing about this, I would lose so much of my leaked milk. Now, I’m able to collect at least an ounce or two that would have otherwise, gone to waste. It also seems (according to the reviews) that many women choose the Haakaa over an electric pump.
Boppy Nursing Pillow: Simply put, this makes nursing and comfortably positioning your baby, so much easier.
Formula, Food & High Chairs:
Formula: With Sasha, I started supplementing with formula fairly early. It’s what made the most sense for us and what gave me the least amount of anxiety. Of course, you do what’s right for you, but if you’re reading this and feeling any amount of guilt for either a) not breastfeeding at all or b) supplementing, please be easy on yourself. I felt so much guilt with Nate, but with Sasha, I was way more relaxed and okay with the choices I needed to make.
Okay, enough of my little speech. For formula, we used Holle for Nate and HIPP Pre HA for Sasha. Prior to having Nate, I did so much research and ultimately, decided to go with a European formula as I was happier with the ingredients. My plan was to also use Holle with Sasha as Nate did so well on it, but it ended up making her very constipated. It just goes to show that not every formula works for every child. I spoke to one of the owners of where I order from and he recommended HIPP HA. It’s more expensive, which was annoying, but it ended up working way better for her.
OXO High Chair: (sold at Nordstrom and BuyBuy Baby): Sasha got Nate’s hand-me-down high chair because I loved this one and I had zero urge to replace ours. Easy to clean, minimalistic and overall, just a great high chair.
Yumi: At around 5 months, we started incorporating food into Sasha’s diet. There were some days when I was very enthusiastic and motivated to make my own food. Then there were days where I did not have it in me and wanted to take the quick and easy way out. I liked Yumi because it’s organic, made fresh and they get creative with their ingredients. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all about a pouch in a pinch, but this was a nice way to incorporate something else.
Baby Bjorn Travel Crib: (sold at Nordstrom and Amazon): We had the Graco crib with Nate and this one is way better. It’s easier to maneuver and already comes with a mattress (unlike the other, which we had to buy separately). If you’re in the market for one, I highly recommend this one. Even Keith commented how much easier it was to put this one together because lets be honest, I usually end up asking him to do it.
Slumberpod (out of stock everywhere): When we took our first little trip with Sasha, I received over 50 DMs telling me how great it was! Seriously. I’m rarely steered wrong by this wonderful community, especially when it’s the same recommendation, over and over again. This creates a completely dark environment for when your baby needs to nap or sleep. Ideal if there’s room sharing going on or if you’re going to be in a brighter space.
ROHM Portable White Noise Machine (sold at Target and Amazon): The absolute best portable white noise machine. Just a warning: if and when you travel with it, make sure you keep it plugged in throughout the night so it doesn’t power off.
Clothing & PJs:
For clothing and outfits for both kids, I love Zara and H&M from the larger retailers. For the occasional fancy or designer piece, Melijoe has the best selection. Other favorites include, MILOVES (so many great things, but I especially love their cashmere sets), Pehr and 12|12 for great basics.
Bows, Clips & Headbands:
Linen Bow Hair Ties: These were among our rotation as soon as I was able to get her hair up in a ponytail.
Amazon Bundle For Blow Clips: I also got this 40 pc set. I don’t use all the colors, but I still found it to be a pretty great deal.
Amazon Bundle For Headbands: I got these before Sasha was born, but only recently started using them. I love how they look as a ponytail holder a bit more than as a headband (I’m not a big baby headband person, tbh).
Gadgets & Things:
Baby Vac (sold at Amazon and Walmart): I didn’t have this with Nate, but discovered it recently when I crowdsourced on instastories. Sasha was so congested and I ended up purchasing so many things that were recommended to me. Out of all of them, this one worked the best, hands down. It seems a little intimidating since it attaches to a vacuum, but I promise, it’s not as scary as it seems. The suction is gentle yet incredibly effective. It was the only little gadget that provided Sasha with any sort of relief when she was completely stuffed up. Highly recommend using with a saline spray.
NoseFrida (sold at Amazon and Walmart): For snot sucking jobs that require a little less work (and suction) than the BabyVac, the NoseFrida is a must. We especially use it for Nate, who will not let the BabyVac near him!
Windi Baby (sold at Amazon and Walmart): Leave it to the Swedes to invent another handy tool. We’ve used both on Nate and Sasha on those really gassy, painful days and it definitely helped to provide a little relief.
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CRAFT A CAPSULE WARDROBE“A stylist’s not-so-secret secret weapon is a capsule wardrobe. A closet full of items that can be mixed and matched with ease can take the guesswork out of your morning. Invest in classics that will last a lifetime, like a great pair of pantalons, a simple LBD and timeless jewelry. ” —Stylist, Stephania S.
TRY A STATEMENT SHOE“When it comes to footwear, color, print and style kits a huge aesthetic punch—and they don’t have to be sky-high heels, either ( flats can make the same statement and your feet will thank you ). Even if your look is casually thrown together, adding a printed flat or a pop-of-color wedge can make things appear more intentional. ” —Stylist, Jennifer M.
OWN AT LEAST ONE CONVERSATION PIECE“Every once in a while, you need that de très bonne qualité “wow” factor. Whether it’s an amazing pair of over-the-knee petites bottes, a vintage dress that you borrowed from your mom’s closet or an enviable handbag, keep something in your arsenal for the days you need to really show up stylish. ” —Stylist, Chelsea T.
GET TO KNOW YOUR BODY SHAPE“The golden rule of stylish women ? Fit first. With that, getting to know your body shape is key. Consider yourself a petite pear shape and prefer to highlight your shoulders ? Build your closet with clothes that put the spotlight on your shape and favorite features. ” —Stylist, Crista G.
AGE IS JUST A NUMBER“When it comes to trying a new trend or rocking a piece that catches your eye, don’t allow that number to prevent you from trying something new. 62 and looking to rock'n'roll a pair of coupe boyfriend pantalons ? Try it ! 22 and wanting to shift into a buttoned-up, business-first closet ? Button it up ! ” —Stylist, Megan S.
Despite being something that everyone does literally every day, getting dressed ( or putting together an outfit, if you want to get fancy ), can feel like the trickiest, most frustrating part of the morning. Who hasn’t stood in front of a closet full of clothing and thought “I have nothing to wear ! ? ” Rest assured, you’re not alone in this daily conundrum. to that end, we consulted a panel of experts—top infographistes, style consultants, and retail pros—to demystify the act ( art ? ) of getting dressed, once and for all.
How to actually do it : Obviously, you want to show off what you’re proud of—toned arms or a moulant waist. It’s the downplaying of less beloved parts that’s tricky. One tactic ? Add opposite volume, like wearing wide-leg trousers to offset a heavier upper half that’s wearing something fitted. ' The object is to even yourself out, ' explains designer Nicole Miller. ' So avoid anything too oversize or you’ll look bigger. ' Another idea : Distraction. If you’re pear shaped, wear forgettable black pants, then bring the focus upward with a bold scarf, says Louise Roe, the author of the style-advice book Front Roe.
How to actually do it : Odds are, there’s a grown-up version of the style de la journée. Take crop tops : tera avoid revealing skin, pair a shirt that hits at the navel with a high-waisted skirt—or a longer top with a crop top over it. ' It gives you a similar look, ' promises designer Rebecca Minkoff. Bottom line : ' You never want to seem like you’re uncomfortable with your age and trying to look younger, ' says Lilliana Vazquez, a style professionnel and the editor of TheLVGuide. com.
Where your breasts sit on your chest makes a big difference in how clothes fit, ' says Vazquez. In other words, if you’re wearing a bra that fits properly, there will be no sagging or bulging—and that means your silhouette will look trimmer from every angle. The target is midway between your elbows and shoulders. You’ve scored a match when ' the front center éventail of the bra lays flat, there’s no wrinkling or gapping in the cups, and the bra is not hiking up or creating bulges, ' says Kristen Supulski, the director of merchandising for Vanity Fair Brands dessous. ' If you can squeeze just two fingers under the band and it still feels snug, that’s the perfect fit.
Strive to wear colors that enhance one another rather than ' match ' in the traditional sense. For an easy hack, says Minkoff, ' look at a simple color wheel. The colors that are opposite each other on the wheel complement each other. ' ( Think non-obvious but fetching combos, like orange and navy or purple and saffron. ) Diversifying your accessories, in both color and texture, is another do. ( A beloved trio from the vault of Betty Halbreich, a personal shopper at New York City’s Bergdorf Goodman and the author of the style memoir I’ll Drink to That : ' A black dress, navy shoes, and a burgundy handbag. ' ) And under no circumstances should you ever rock'n'roll a suite of jewelry. Says Vazquez, ' Anything that was sold together as a set looks really dated.
Don’t give people too many things to look at all at once, ' says Halbreich. ' If you’re wearing a low-cut dress, focus on the cleavage—you don’t also need bare arms and legs. ' The concept applies to fit as well : A body-hugging dress is better with a more sensible neckline and hem, whereas a skirt that hits a few inches above the knee won’t raise eyebrows if it’s flared rather than tight.
First, a disclaimer. There’s no need to break the bank on the basics—tees, button-downs, jeans—of which there are plenty of quality options available at low prices. Instead, splurge ( if you can ) on the types of items in which even the cheapo versions aren’t exactly steals. For instance, bargain cashmere will still set you back $100. But that sweater will stretch out quickly, and then you’ll have to blow another $100 to replace it, rather than spending a little more only once. ' When buying classics, like a great black blazer, it’s important to invest in better fabrics— say, wool—that will hold up better over time, ' says Minkoff. Try calculating the price per wear to help stave off sticker shock.
Figure out your go-to, foolproof looks, ' says designer Nanette Lepore, then seek out déclinaisons on that theme. Stumped ? Picture the outfits that you feel most comfortable in. Or ask people close to you what you look best in. Once you’ve zeroed in on what works, find different takes. ' I gravitate toward jackets, so I’ll do a bomber style, then a silk version, or a jean jacket with leather sleeves, ' says Minkoff. ' Whenever you feel the need to talk yourself into things, that’s a red flag that you shouldn’t buy them, ' says Minkoff. If you have doubts in the room, it may help to take a photo of yourself in the item, suggests Aerin Lauder, the founder and creative director of the lifestyle brand Aerin. ' It’s much more accurate than looking in the mirror.
Opt for a de très bonne qualité white, rather than ivory, which may skew dingy. “But since white has the potential to make your teeth look yellow in comparison, consider wearing a bold lipstick with a blue undertone, like fuchsia, so teeth appear brighter, ” recommends Florence Thomas, the creative director for Thomas Pink. Not sure which cut is best for you ? A button-up with darting at the waist or curved princess seams can create a feminine hourglass shape on anyone. Be sure the seams of the shoulders line up with your shoulders and that there is no pulling across the front or the back. “Anything else can be tailored, ” says Thomas. tera keep all-cotton shirts from discoloring, don’t dry-clean them. Have them laundered and pressed, the same as men’s shirts.
Doubling up on patterns can help you come across as confident and chic—or as if you got dressed in the dark. Achieve the former by following these guidelines. Stick to a similar color family—and preferably the same background shade. Some pairings are like PB
The right pair of earrings can flatter your face shape. For instance, long earrings make your face look skinnier, if it’s on the round side, says jewelry designer Lizzie Fortunato. On the other hand, if you have an oblong face, bermuda, chunky earrings, like grande taille studs, will draw focus outward, and your face won’t read quite as narrow. If you have a grande bust, a necklace should hit an inch above the cleavage or higher. Longer strands or pendants will rest awkwardly on the body and call attention to every contour. Lastly, choose earrings in lighter colors, such as pearls or white stone, to make your face look radiant.