bitchy | Ivanka Trump’s former high school BFF spills all in a Vanity Fair essay
I get Vanity Fair emails so I know when they tell a great story. I spent all day yesterday avoiding the big VF story of the day: “Ivanka Trump was my best friend. Now she is MAGA Royalty. I avoided it because whatever, especially at this stage? The assets have lost. Hopefully some or all […]

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I get Vanity Fair emails so I know when they tell a great story. I spent all day yesterday avoiding the big VF story of the day: “Ivanka Trump was my best friend. Now she is MAGA Royalty. I avoided it because whatever, especially at this stage? The assets have lost. Hopefully some or all of them will go to jail. They will absolutely be social pariahs. And they absolutely find their MAGA base disgusting. So why am I here? Well we've had a few requests for coverage and I also came across a brief summary of the article and was slightly amused. I mean guess what, Ivanka Trump was a disgusting person in prep school too. It was written by Lysandra Ohrstrom, who met Ivanka when they were both in 7th grade, and their friendship blossomed at Chapin, Manhattan's elite girls' school. You can read the full article here. Some strong points:

Donald Trump had a photographic memory for the bodies of teenage girls: He barely recognized me, except to ask if Ivanka was the prettiest or most popular girl in our class. Before learning that the Trumps had no sense of humor about them, I remember honestly answering that she was probably in the top five. "Who is prettier than Ivanka?" I remember he asked once in real confusion, before correctly naming the two girls I had in mind. He described one as a young Cindy Crawford, while the other he said had a tall build. Although he never remembered my name, he seemed to have a photographic memory of the changes in my body. I'll never forget the time Ivanka and I had lunch with her brothers in Mar-a-Lago one day, and while Mr. Trump was saying hello to me, Don Jr. slipped half a grilled cheese sandwich off my plate. Ivanka scolded him, but Mr. Trump replied, “Don't worry. She doesn't need it. He's doing her a favor. Conversely, he would usually congratulate me if I had lost weight.

Ivanka has always hated the poor: I remembered a phone call we had in our mid-twenties. Ivanka has always solicited book suggestions from me, and I had recently recommended Empire Falls, the 2001 Pulitzer Prize winner Richard Russo's novel about the life of a restaurant manager in a working-class community in Maine. "Ly, why would you tell me to read a book about fucking with the poor?" I remember Ivanka said. "What part of you thinks that would interest me?"

She is conceited, boring and rough around the edges: Ivanka regularly relayed stories of teachers or observers who had stated that she had the most innate talent they had ever seen for any new activity she undertook. She never wore a Halloween costume that wasn't flattering, meaning she usually showed up at costume parties with a boring, beautiful look. She always stopped by McDonald's for cheeseburgers. She swore. And of course, she had the Trump radar for status, money and power, and her father's instinct to throw others under the bus to save himself.

What in the ...By the time I got home, she had started dating Jared Kushner, whose family was Orthodox Jewish, and my pro-Palestinian stance began to irritate. Since 2007, I have been wearing a necklace with my name written in Arabic, and Ivanka is more and more irritated. Sometimes she would say randomly, "I hate this thing." Then one evening in the middle of dinner, she took a look at the necklace and said, "How does your Jewish boyfriend feel when you have sex and that necklace hits him in the face?" How can you wear this thing? He just screams, 'terrorist'. "

After four years, Lysandra still doesn't understand why Ivanka became MAGA: Aligning with her father's banana republic type administration didn't make sense to me, until my friend suggested that Ivanka take her children to the rally to show them that they are royalty. American. This explanation seemed the most plausible. What is more regal than presiding over subjects you despise?

[From Vanity Fair]

After reading this I realized I had completely written off tons of people for only a fraction of what Ivanka did to Lysandra. I probably could have overlooked the 'I'm not going to read about the poor' thing, and I could probably ignore the occasional, incessant vanity and vulgarity as well (although eating McDonalds cheeseburgers doesn't equate to 'rough around the edges. "). But high school friends split up in their twenties, it happens all the time, and by that point it was clear who Ivanka was and how ignorant and horrible she was. I can see how it surprised Lysandra when Ivanka became full of MAGA, but again… Ivanka completely wired this. We knew she was an accomplice in 2016-2017. After four years of his weird fascist whisper, let's just close this f-king book.

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