9 Ways to Know You Should Stop Focusing on Fat Loss
You can listen to this article. Use the player below, download the MP3, or use iTunes. To be clear, this is not an argument against pursuing fat loss to improve your health, or confidence, or because you want to increase muscle definition. Problems arise, however, when fat loss turns into a dominating obsession. When it’s […]

stop focusing on fat lossYou can listen to this article. Use the player below, download the MP3, or use iTunes.

To be clear, this is not an argument against pursuing fat loss to improve your health, or confidence, or because you want to increase muscle definition.

Problems arise, however, when fat loss turns into a dominating obsession. When it’s the only reason you exercise and make healthful food choices, and it creates increasing levels of stress and frustration. This can lead to:

  • Guilt from eating your favorite foods
  • Chronic dissatisfaction with your body
  • Stress from relentlessly fighting against your body
  • Seeing exercise as punishment or something you do just to burn calories
  • Feeling less than

These are unacceptable byproducts from a long-term, single-track focus on fat loss.

How can you know if it’s time to stop focusing on fat loss? Easy. If you are currently doing any of the following nine things, it means you could benefit from going beyond fat loss to fuel your food and fitness choices.

1) Losing fat was the reason you first joined a gym or started working out.

If you’re like many women, losing weight was the reason you first joined a gym and started exercising. Perhaps it’s also the same recycled New Year’s resolution you set year after year.

There isn’t a thing wrong with wanting to change how your body looks or seeking to reap the health benefits of losing excess body fat. But, if fat loss is the only reason you work out and it’s the only goal you have driving your efforts, you may quickly burn out (or burn out again if you’ve obsessed about fat loss for long periods and end up frustrated and discouraged).

If you don’t know what it feels like to be excited to go into a workout knowing it might be the day you set a personal record, or working out quite often feels like a chore rather than a privilege, it’s time to focus on something beyond fat loss.

2) You feel anxious or uneasy about the number on the scale.

Does the number on the scale have any effect on your self-worth? Does it have the power to affect your mood? Too many women answer this question with a resounding “Yes.” We’ve become conditioned to intertwine our self-worth with numbers like our bodyweight, or body fat percentage.

When I was working on my exercise physiology degree, a collegiate swimmer volunteered to be the test subject for the hydrostatic tank (a test for determining body fat percentage) during a lab course. She spent hours every day in a swimsuit and in water, so she was happy to be tested.

She put on her suit, got in the tank, did the test like it was a normal day. But once the results were in and she was told her body fat percentage was in the low 20s, her face sunk. She appeared stunned; the previous smile on her face quickly vanished. That number — twenty-something percent — affected her, sucking out her self-confidence in an instant like an industrial vacuum.

What is it about numbers like bodyweight and body fat that have an immense power over us? The moment they’re revealed our mood can shift from despair to elation or from joy to gloom.

The competitive swimmer went from confident and relaxed to timid and uneasy with the revelation of a single number. The number was obviously higher than expected, but it had no realistic affect: It didn’t change the fact that she was strong, healthy, and a high-performing athlete. And yet, knowing that number changed everything. It was like she was a different person after being told her body fat was in the low 20s. It’s heartbreaking that a number can paralyze use like a powerful sedative.

If the number on the scale or body fat percentage has ever had a similar effect on you, it’s time to shift your focus to something other than fat loss. These numbers say nothing about your potential, strength, abilities, or self-worth.

3) You say, “I’ll be happy when I weigh …”

Too many people hold their happiness captive, expecting it to be set free once they reach an ideal number on the scale, like their pre-baby weight or perhaps what they weighed before starting their career (or, in my case years ago, what I weighed before succumbing to disordered and binge eating habits).

There’s a tremendous difference between losing weight to increase your health, confidence, and quality of life and hating your way to a number you think will provide happiness and a greater sense of self-worth.

If you’re expecting the fat loss journey to conclude with you finally loving your body and a welcoming sense of elation, think again. If the fat loss journey is defined by hatred toward your body, you’ll likely end up moving the target further once you reach it.

The woman who does manage to reach her ideal weight, for example, may feel momentary joy, but will quickly find other “flaws” to fix or improve, or set a lower bodyweight as the new ideal. It’s a treadmill of goals; you move a ton but never actually go anywhere. If your happiness is dependent on a certain outcome and you’re hating your way there, you’ll only move the goal post further out once you reach it.

4) You’re constantly fighting your body to fit a preconceived ideal shape or weight.

Countless women will go years, some their entire lives, disliking their bodies. They always find something to criticize or lament.

“I want the body of a ballerina: tall with long legs and arms,” I’ve heard women say who have the complete opposite body type. Well I want a serving of peanut butter to be one cup instead of two dinky tablespoons, but that’s not going to happen. Wanting something that’s impossible is a waste of time and energy.

If the only things you say about your body upon seeing yourself in photographs or reflection in the mirror revolve around traits you don’t like or things you want to “fix,” then it’s time to take a different tack.

Think about it: What would be possible if you devoted that focus and effort on outcomes you could affect? What if you focused on being more, not less?

5) You focus on how far you still have to go and the goals you haven’t yet reached.

If you only think about what you can’t do or haven’t achieved while entirely neglecting what you can do and what you have done, you will always feel less than.

In the pursuit of fat loss, it’s not uncommon for women to relentlessly chase their target: fitting into a smaller clothing size or specific number on the scale. And throughout that process, all they can think about is how far they are from the goal, and they ignore all the work they’ve put in, all the achievements in the gym they’ve earned.

Don’t let the goal of fat loss blind you from seeing, and appreciating, all the work you’ve already done: the habits you’re forging, the workouts you’ve performed, the health benefits you’re reaping along the way. Don’t allow the obsession over future goals prevent you from taking a moment to look back and proudly say, “I’ve done so much already, and I’m proud of myself.” This can help you break free from the ugly side of health and fitness.

6) You perform an extra or more grueling workout as punishment for overeating or indulging in “forbidden” foods.

If you’ve said something like, “If I eat this food then I must perform a workout to burn it off,” or “I can’t eat that food unless I perform a workout to earn it,” then it would benefit you to reevaluate the reasons you work out.

There’s nothing wrong with balancing your food and exercise choices, but a workout should never be a tool of punishment or currency in response to food choices.

Make no mistake, there’s a tremendous difference between choosing to go for a walk because you know the extra movement is good for you after enjoying a larger-than-expected feast and performing an extra workout out of guilt and panic from overindulging because you think the extra calories will instantly make you gain body fat.

There are tons of reasons to work out and eat nutritious foods that have nothing to do with fat loss. Those reasons are worth exploring for yourself.

7) Physical activities that were once enjoyable have been reduced to simply being tools for burning calories.

I’ve heard stories from women about an activity or hobby they once did for enjoyment or self-care (fitness classes, jogging, biking, hiking, skiing, even strength training) has morphed into a must-perform chore that’s done for its calorie-burning benefits. I know personally what this is like too.

What was once an activity they looked forward to doing became an activity done just for burning calories to, hopefully, spur fat loss results, or to prevent regaining weight that had been lost.

This is what happens when a long-term fat loss mindset becomes a pervasive parasite that feeds on our insecurities. Fat loss becomes the lens through which we view and value physical activities and food choices. Hopes of fat loss or an ideal bodyweight, or fear of losing hard-earned results, become the fuel sources for our actions.

8) You view foods as fat-loss friends or foes.

Do you often wonder Will this help me lose fat? or think I shouldn’t eat this because it’s “bad” and will make me gain weight when analyzing food? Do you feel obligated to give your favorite foods and recipes a healthy makeover?

The dichotomous view of food — labeling some “good” and others “bad” — not only causes stress and frustration, but can forge a fear of food. And fear should never influence your food choices.

There are numerous reasons to eat nutritious foods that have nothing to do with losing body fat, or preventing weight gain. And, no, declaring food simply “fuel” and saying, “How it tastes shouldn’t matter!” is equally ridiculous. As with many things, the answer lies somewhere in the middle. In this case, between the extremes of deprivation and unchecked indulgence.

If fear influences your food choices, it can be helpful to start erasing the harmful “good” and “bad” labels we’ve been conditioned to attach to food and, perhaps, try to simplify how to eat healthy and eating less-nutritious foods in moderation. And while you’re at it, learn how to not feel guilty for eating your favorite foods.

9) You haven’t known reasons to work out that have nothing to do with fat loss or changing how your body looks.

Exercise and nutrition are often tremendous sources of frustration for women; tools simply meant to alter the appearance of their bodies, fix so-called “flaws,” attain an “ideal” shape perpetuated by social media.

And that should be unacceptable!

Think about it: Exercise and nutrition should be tools that create a health-promoting lifestyle that make you feel great about yourself. Tools to create a high-quality life that allows you to do and experience the things that are important to you.

Your healthy lifestyle should be flexible so you can adapt to whatever circumstances life throws at you or as your preferences change. It should lead you to discover the amazing things your body can do instead of making you feel like you’re constantly fighting against it. It should help you break through the artificial boundaries that have restrained you instead of creating, and reinforcing, them. Nutrition and exercise should alleviate stress, not augment it.

If you’ve never known the satisfaction of getting stronger, increasing your endurance and work capacity, appreciating your body for what it can do, looking forward to workouts because you know you’ll set a personal record, then it’s time to explore those reasons.

Go Beyond Fat Loss

Perhaps the nonsense and narcissism disguised as health-promoting information has distorted your perception of food and fitness. Maybe you’re stuck in old habits and just don’t know any goals other than weight loss that are worth pursuing.

Or, perhaps, you’re fed up with feeling less than and want a better, empowering and enjoyable, health and fitness lifestyle that makes you feel great about yourself.

That’s a damn fine goal. Go beyond fat loss and begin by asking worthy questions about exercise and the health-promoting habits you want to establish:

  • If fat loss was irrelevant, why would I work out?
  • Instead of a specific outcome like reaching a certain bodyweight, what actions can I regularly practice that will establish the healthy lifestyle I want to create?
  • How can I reclaim a hobby/activity I once enjoyed that’s been relegated to nothing more than a calorie-burning activity?
  • What performance-based goals can I set for cardio, or how can I make cardio more enjoyable?
  • What performance-based goals can I have with strength training? How strong can I become?

Don’t be afraid to say, “Screw fat loss!” and find reasons beyond the number on the scale to move your body and improve nutrition habits.

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Don’t Be Afraid tera Ask For Clarification, Over and Over and Over Again. It’s your time, money, and most importantly, your health we’re talking about here. If you don’t fully understand something during chic, ask. If you still don’t get it, ask again. Don’t be afraid to ask for clarification if you don’t fully grasp the concept, or you think others in the class will get frustrated with you for taking up too much time… they probably have the same juste question. We were all newbies at one point. We’ve all been there. Learning the mechanics of certain movements like the squat, soulevé de terre, or any of the Olympic lifts takes lots of practice and critique from a trained eye. If you need help, just ask.

CrossFit Isn’t Everything. CrossFit is a strength and conditioning program that focuses on building general physical preparedness ( GPP ). It is quickly evolving into a sport of its own, but that doesn’t mean that it has to be your sport or your lifeblood. A majority of people CrossFit so that they can do whatever they want : Go out, play sports, learn new things, etc. Having that GPP allows you to take on new challenges. CrossFit doesn’t have to be your life. Many people CrossFit so they can have a life… and be awesome at it.

It Doesn’t Get Easier, It Just Sucks Less. The longer you immerse yourself in the suck, the less it sucks. You get stronger, build a greater aerobic capacity, and become mentally tough. All of these aspects, combined with experience, allow you to know when to push yourself and when to back off, so that you can attack each workout to the best of your ability.

You Won’t PR Every Day. Don’t mistake intensity for hard work. Even if you’re having a bad day and the intensity just isn’t there, you can still get a lot out of your time in the gym through hard work. Intensity and work are not the same thing. Don’t skip a planned session just because you don’t think you’re going to kill it and leave everything out on the table. Not feeling too strong that day ? Something is always better than nothing.

Introduce yourself to others in the class. How will this help you ask ? When you introduce yourself to someone you’ll feel more comfortable in the chic and realize that you’re not the only one that’s new to CrossFit. So instead of feeling totally nervous and awkward holding a PVC pipe overhead, you feel a little bit more at ease and focus more on what you’re doing.

Keep a journal. Write down the warm-up, the skill, the WOD, and your results. This will greatly accelerate your progress. We often do workouts and lifts based on weights and reps that we have previously done. If you don’t know which kettlebell to use because you never recorded the weight you used last week, then you end up picking the wrong weight. Write stuff down and be able to reference it.

Listen to the Coach. He/she is there for a reason. They spent time studying the subject matter. They have coached hundreds to thousands of people on these movements. Your buddy that watched a couple of Youtube films is not lateral to that.

Firebreather. Beast. Rock star. You’ll hear a lot of different terminology used to describe those athletes who kill every workout, and blow everyone else away. Here in our gym, we consider every one of our athletes a rock vedette. Hey, it takes huge cojones just to show up and do these insane WODs. Be proud of yourself and what you accomplish here. We sure as hell are.

Walk into any box ( that’s CrossFit speak for the gym itself ) and you’ll be greeted by clanging weights, clouds of chalk and whiteboards scribbled with acronyms like “AMRAP” and “EMOM. ” With insider speak that almost qualifies as its own language and raw, rough-around-the-edges spaces, CrossFit can definitely be intimidating to try. And even though many of the 10, 000 affiliate gyms offer your first workout free, beginners may still feel overwhelmed by the culture of the popular strength and conditioning program.

So what should you really expect if and when you dive into the world of CrossFit ? We turned to five athletes who’ve sweated through years of WODs ( aka workouts of the day ) for the advice they wish they’d gotten when they first started.

“Each culture, coach and [workout] space is very different, ” says Anna Willard, a CrossFit athlete at CrossFit Merrimack in Lowell, MA, as well as a former professional middle-distance runner. ( She snagged a world record in the steeplechase in 2008, but no longer competes. ) She recommends trying out a couple of different boxes before committing yourself — and your credit card — to one. “Don’t necessarily go to the place that is the most ‘convenient, ’” Willard says. Look for that one gym that’ll keep you coming back — so take note of each box’s programming ( aka the structure of workouts ) and study the overall vibe of the community before ponying up for a package.

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