How to Dress for Your Valentine’s Date
While some people think Valentine's Day is terrible and expressions of love shouldn't be obligatory on certain dates, others see it as a great opportunity to go on a (first) date or just to...

While some people think Valentine's Day is terrible and expressions of love shouldn't be obligatory on certain dates, others see it as a great opportunity to go on a (first) date or just to celebrate their relationship.

However, no matter what you think of Valentine's Day, it's a great excuse to step up your style game.

One thing's for sure, there is no need for a winger as we've given you THE rundown on what to wear and how to prepare for common Valentine's Day date scenarios.

When you arrive on date night, wear something classy like a cool blazer will be noticed. Still, you don't want to be extremely overdressed or underdressed. It all depends on the occasion.

“What you want to do with your outfit is make a good impression on your date. Dressing inappropriately is a sure way not to impress! "

The occasional date

Is your date the most relaxed? And by casual, we mean going to the movies or having a coffee in a traditional cafe. If so, go for the street look: Neat jeans in good condition, stylish jogging pants, a cute T-shirt, a cool sweater or a leather jacket - all are a definite GO.

However, be sure to make it somewhat special, even if it's just a casual date. You'll want to aim for the smarter end of the smart casual barometer for this one, in case you end up going for a drink after you've finished the last sip of coffee.

Fortunately, it's easily doable: add cool accessories like a watch, bracelet, belt or sunglasses - a little something to add style and edge without overwhelming your date.

And although you never go wrong wearing basic like a white or black t-shirt combined with black jeans, it is also super cool to add some color to your outfit. Choose jewel tones: emerald green, midnight blue or dark purple.

Today's date

If you and your partner end up planning something less casual like taking a trip to another city or visiting your favorite brunch restaurant, you will surely want to wear something a little more dressy.

Add a nice blazer, dress pants or chinos and make sure you have a pair of black or brown dress shoes, boots or a nice clean pair of sneakers.

Instead of showing off a completely unique outfit to show off how different you are from everyone else, try showing your individuality by focusing on the details. As mentioned above, cool accessories like a colorful pair of socks will take you really far.

The dinner date at the fancy restaurant

Well you've managed to get a reservation at this chic downtown restaurant and to top it off you've placed an order with your favorite florist.

Now what are you going to wear?

Nothing beats a well-cut suit! Since you've gone for the more traditional type of Valentine's Day date, keep your look as classic as possible by wearing a suit in navy blue, light gray, black, or velvet texture - preferably tones. dark.

Remember, the goal here is to look well dressed and attractive. With that in mind, go for the look by wearing a stylish blazer with a simple white shirt, a pair of classic black Oxfords and, if you feel like it, add a folded pocket square.

Unless you've booked a table at one of the fancier restaurants, it might be overkill to add both a tie and a suit jacket. If you're feeling a little overdressed, switch to classic chinos in beige, navy or black or maybe even try some cool leather pants?

The Staying In Date

Don't want to step out of your comfort zone? Or maybe you just prefer to stay on Valentine's Day?

Well, just because you won't leave your house doesn't mean you trust jeans and hood combination made the cut!

Keep your outfit casual but presentable. This can be done with one or more of the following: A pair of jeans, casual chinos, jogging pants, a light V-neck or round-neck shirt or sweater, and a polo shirt.

Although shoes are not the problem, make sure your socks have no holes… However, you are allowed to wear socks with a cheeky design or maybe a cool design that complements your outfit.

Stick to what you know

No matter what you are planning to do for Valentine's Day, the key is to choose an outfit that you feel comfortable wearing.. If you don't feel comfortable, your date will notice for sure.

A rule of thumb here is not to try on a whole new trend or wear a new pair of dress shoes on the night of a date. For obvious reasons, there is a risk that you will feel uncomfortable wearing it and the shoes will hurt your feet.

Showcase your best features

Whatever you choose to wear for your Valentine's Day date, take the time to pay attention to the fit of the clothes. Make sure your pants fit well.

Pro tip: YesYou should be able to comfortably thread three fingers through the belt!

Plus, find out which colors work well for you and flatter your natural hair color. In order to highlight blue or green eyes, go for cool, dark colors such as gray and navy blue. Do you have warm brown eyes? Try a warm, light color like brown.

The final touch

Besides your outfit, your grooming routine is extremely important!

First of all, wear perfume. But not too much. Go for a classic, masculine scent and apply it to the tiles and the neck. Consider giving your shirt a little spritz to get you a little closer.

Second, make sure your beard is looking its best. You don't have to be really interested in style to know that beards are back. Facial hair is just as important as yours and just like your hair, care should be taken. Pssst… Learn to Choose a beard that complements your look.

Finally, your hair is essential. A word of warning: Never try on a whole new hairstyle right before your date!

Instead, go for the grooming routine that you know and love. After all, your date has already agreed to date you, so you need to do something right.
Learn from our experience and get your hair cut a week before the date and visit a hairdresser who knows your hair.

Now you just need a date and a plan!
Discover the main men's hair trends for winter or discover stylish tips and tricks from Emil & Rasmus.

Okay, now we have more or less what you need. Now you just need a date to plan the most romantic Valentine's Day. If you need dating advice, check it out Rasmus's 13 Valentine's Day Dating Tips Here.

Good luck!



There once was a time when we had to devote a huge amount of effort to uncover the truth about our beauty surveillance. Now we’re in a golden age of transparency. You can google just about any ingredient or Yelp whatever service and a wealth of reviews are available at the ready. And with social media holding brands accountable, they’re listening to our pleas and have begun providing the information we need to make informed decisions about the products we purchase. But there’s still one place where that ease of knowledge hasn’t extended : the salon.

Even for those of us who have been getting our hair cut and colored for decades, there’s still so much confusion around tipping. Unlike some brasseries, where your receipt gives you a gentle nudge toward gratuity by listing the juste dollar amounts for a 15, 20, or 25 percent tip, the salon is much trickier, with no indication of who ( if anyone ) gets extra money and how much to give. Are you supposed to tip the owner ? And what if multiple assistants helped with your blowout or shampoo ? There’s also the venant of knowing where your money is going : There’s much more tchat around servers’ salaries than there is around our stylists’. All these factors make the equation that much more difficult.

to shed some light on what’s really going on at the salon, Glamour talked to stylists, assistants, and owners around the country to find out. From where your hard-earned cash goes to what ( and who ) you really should be tipping, read on for their unfiltered opinions and advice.

Salons run on a few models—most commonly commission-based and booth rentals ( more on those later ). Commission, explains Siobhán Quinlan, a colorist at Art Autonomy Salon in NYC, means that employees are paid for the services performed, of which they only keep a portion, usually somewhere between 40 to 60 percent of the price. The remaining percentage goes to the mobilier for overhead costs like utilities, product used ( color, shampoo, conditioner, etc. ), and amenities for both équipe and clients.

There once was a time when we had to devote a huge amount of effort to uncover the truth about our beauty surveillance. Now we’re in a golden age of transparency. You can google just about any ingredient or Yelp whatever service and a wealth of reviews are available at the ready. And with social media holding brands accountable, they’re listening to our pleas and have begun providing the information we need to make informed decisions about the products we purchase. But there’s still one place where that ease of knowledge hasn’t extended : the mobilier.

Nicole Krzyminski, a stylist at Fringe salon in Chicago, breaks it down : “Say you’re getting a beautiful new color—your balayage, conditioning, and toning takes about three hours and costs around $250, ” she says. “After accounting for the overhead fees and product costs, the stylist gets about $100 of that pretax. ”

In some cases, stylists can also make money by convincing clients to buy a product that was used on them during their service. However, this represents a minuscule amount of revenue says Shira Devash Espinoza, a freelance stylist based in New Jersey. “When working in a salon, you’re constantly pushed and ‘rewarded’ to sell, but only earn maybe 10 percent of it if you’re lucky, ” she says.

So what happens to Krzyminski’s hypothetical $100 ? The majority of it, she says, goes toward licensing fees, personal supplies, and tools ( blow-dryers, flatirons, curling irons ), and continuing education classes. That means even on a jam-packed day, a stylist may only make enough take home pay to cover the essentials of food, shelter, and clothing.

Tips, on the other hand, help pay for the supplemental benefits that those not in the service industry take for granted. Says Stephanie Brown, a colorist at Manhattan’s Nunzio Saviano Salon, “It’s a physically demanding emploi, and most expositions are too small to provide health benefits or paid vacations and sick days. ”

Ladda Phommavong, a stylist at Third Space Salon in Austin, Texas, says that those gratuities are what helped her become the in-demand stylist she is today. “The tips I received from clients meant being able to take outside courses to hone my craft, ” she says. “If clients knew I was saving up to take the master colorist course and that their tipping was directly contributing to me becoming a better stylist for them, I think they would definitely want to be a part of that. ”

Many stylists choose to forgo the commission-based life and instead strike out on their own by renting booths in salons. This basically means paying a weekly or monthly fee—our stylist sources said they generally pay around $120 a week or $880 a month, depending on where they are based—to reserve a semipermanent spot to see clients. In these cases, stylists keep 100 percent of their service fee as well as their tips. The downside ? “We pay for absolutely everything—refreshments, cups, capes, color bowls, foils, brushes, scissors, styling products, ” says Jennifer Riney of Brushed Salon in Oklahoma City. They are also on the hook for paying liability insurance and credit card fees.

Freelancers like Sarah Finn, who rents a chair at The Ritz Day Spa

Another option for freelancers is the coworking mobilier. Arturo Swayze, the founder and CEO of ManeSpace in NYC, is a pioneer of this relatively new setup. He provides short-term rentals for stylists who don’t need or want a regular stint in a salon. Stylists reserve a time slot, use an application to unlock the space, and see their clientele as needed. But even in this scenario, says Swayze, there is still uncertainty.

“Because the coworking model is so new, people really don’t know what proper tipping etiquettes are, ” he explains. “Tipping is still an important aspect for these hairstylists. They are independent, but essentially have all the expenses of a mobilier owner, but they’re not drawing income from other stylists. ”

“Each stylist is running their own small in a way, ” says Nicole Wilder of Paragon Salons in Cincinnati. “We have relied on tips as a part of our salaries for decades. We kind of signed up for that as part of it. But we work on our feet to make you feel beautiful. ”

Assistants are the unsung heroes of the salon industry—and some of the most neglected. They are involved in almost every aspect of your service. “Our duties as an assistant helping a stylist are to shampoo all clients for haircuts, apply toners, blow-dry, and mix color, ” says Ocean McDaeth, one of the assistants at Art Autonomy. “We’re also in charge of setting up the stylists for each service, keeping their stations as well as the mobilier clean, doing laundry, and greeting clients and making sure they are comfortable throughout [their visit]. ”

Since assistants don’t perform technical services, they’re usually paid a day rate by the salon owner. Many times the stylists they assist will also tip them out with a small percentage of the day’s take. “Being a hairdresser has a huge financial obligation. I think it’s fair to say we as assistants really do rely on our tips. Without them I have no idea how I’d survive in NYC, ” McDaeth admits.

It’s important to note that assistants aren’t the norm in smaller salons and outside of big cities. High-end expositions with a grande clientele tend to hire assistants as a way to let a stylist book more appointments. If the assistant is washing your hair, this allows the stylist to have another client in their chair. When done well, you might not even notice your stylist or colorist is sérieux with one or two other people in addition to you. This maximizes the stylists’ time and earning power, making assistants integral to a prestige salon’s operation.

While having assistants is a lifesaver for hairdressers, it can be a nightmare for clients if you’re trying to figure out who to tip. In large expositions, you can have up to 10 different people touching your hair, notes Jon Reyman, a master stylist and co-owner of Spoke

Of course, there’s no way to know if that is your salon’s economic ecology, so in general, think about what the assistant has done for you. If they are shampooing, applying gloss, and/or doing your postcut blowout, it’s a good idea to throw something their way. ( See our cheat sheet, below, for more on what exactly to give. )


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