As the world went on right now, my dreams of the perfect first birthday party for my daughter Eilish of course came to an end. So I found myself trying to put together some semblance of celebration for her on April 9th.e anniversary. I sent the details of my Zoom party to the gang, ordered the decorations that would arrive in time to brighten up the house a bit, and ordered two dozen cupcakes.
The night before the big day, my husband and I stayed up late to clean the house, put his new rocking horse together, and hang up some decorations (and late, I mean 10:30 p.m.). Being a practical person, I haven't gone crazy with the decorations since you know she is. If I want her to be interested in something, she'll give it exactly 0% of her attention. The next morning my sweet birthday girl woke up and, as expected, took a look at the decorations and had no idea it was a special day, all around her.
We started the day with a fun breakfast - her first syrup pancakes - which she spat out right away. So the usual oatmeal and banana, that was. Then we spent the morning swinging on her horse, blowing bubbles outside, splashing like crazy with ALL the toys in the tub, and then we took her very last photo on her milestone blanket. Gah! Doing the latter gave me "all the sensations".
Throughout the day, I looked at the photos from the day she was born a lot, repeatedly pushing them across my husband's face, with a, "Look how little she was!" Watching a little human grow up in front of your eyes is truly amazing. What's more amazing is how much you miss each version of this person. I wish I could hold my little 7lb Eilish again and kiss her old wrinkled face. Instead, my 1 year old will just have extra pressure, and squirm and scratch to get out of my arms every time I try to rock her like I did a year ago.
Since I wasn't the only one who remembered our official family member # 1 a lot, we went on a social tour to drop off cupcakes and give the next family a little nod. Like all plans these days, it didn't work out as I hoped. A storm hit, and it was very rainy and cold, so it turned into a text and run situation "I'm leaving cupcakes at your door, see you on Zoom". Eilish passed out as soon as we got in the car. So much for the waves and the blown kisses!
After such a long nap, (Eilish's gift to us), it was dinner (salmon, mashed potatoes and broccoli - his favorites), and it was time to get ready for the party. I put her in her evening dress, put on a real shirt and makeup (I kept my leggings on) and set up the laptop. It was a pretty quick event, probably 20 minutes, to sing happy birthday and share a cupcake with the birthday girl. She pushed it slowly, having more fun feeding it to me than eating it herself. But the little test was fun. She did all of her tricks - smiled, pointed to her family, clapped and danced. And then for the grand finale, she showed off her new skill: walking. Huge success.
I can really say that our friends and family had a great time sharing these moments with us. Sure, it was hard for everyone who loves her not to hold her and give her birthday hugs, but it got the job done. Eilish liked to be the center of attention and could see everyone's faces. And at 1, it's not like she knows the difference. And there will be many other things to celebrate. So, I say, next - sound 1st birthday was to be tamed, but its 2nd birthday can be epic.
If you thought that being pregnant was a one way ticket to frumpsville - think again ! It’s time to embrace those extra curves and rock your bump. This is your opportunity to get creative with your clothes, and to create a look that will take you right through to the birth of your little one.
You may not remember the last time you saw your feet, but trust us, right now you look amazing, and it’s time to show the world !
Your changing body shape gives you free reign to try out a whole range of styles that you would never have considered BP ( before pregnancy ). Of course, it’s important to balance feeling comfortable with looking totally awesome, but by getting the basics right you’ll be rocking your own pregnancy style before you know it.
In recent years many more retailers have started stocking maternity ranges, so you can still site your favourite brands such as H
The great thing about your bump is that you don’t have to spend a fortune, a few key pieces will provide the foundation of your pregnancy look, and you can then build it up from there.
A comfortable pair of maternity jeans - there are some great ones on the market right now, choose from types that go under your bump, or ones that go over it – these may make you feel like Simon Cowell, but you’ll be super comfortable, and no one else will know ! Darker coloured pantalons are great for both daytime, and for evenings out.
Maternity vest tops – these are worth grabbing in a few colours as you’re sure to wear them again and again throughout your pregnancy. As they keep your bump covered, they’re perfect for layering with favourite non-maternity items such as blazers and open shirts.
Put together an effortless weekend look by combining your maternity jeans with a black vest top, and then accessorise, accessorise, accessorise ! Add pops of colour with accessories such as circle scarves and chunky necklaces to pull your look together. Pair this with a blazer and pumps if you fancy looking a bit smarter, or stay casual with an open shirt over the top and your favourite trainers.
If you’ve always run scared of stripes, now’s the time to embrace them, they’ll look amazing on your bump. This is the time to show off your bump, and a tight, striped top or dress will do just that.
So that’s your causal wardrobe sorted, but how about work ? If you’re starting to panic on a Monday morning as you try on every item in your wardrobe to find something to wear that not only fits, but is also suitable for work, we can help.
Pencil skirts are your new BFF, well at least for pregnancy anyway. These beauties will keep you covered up, avantager your bump, and you’ll look amazing wearing it. Simplify getting ready for work even more by opting for a pencil dress, that way you don’t even need to worry about matching it with a top – sorted !
Wearing wrap dresses, and jumper dresses is also a great way to combine looking smart at work, but staying comfortable.
Planning a night out, but have no clue what to wear ? If in doubt, keep it simple. In the photo above Giovanna Fletcher is off to meet Prince Charles, and looks amazing in a black dress and black pumps. As stunning as her outfit is we’re pretty sure it must be very comfortable too, and if that’s good enough to wear to meet royalty, it’s definitely acceptable to wear on a night out with our friends.
Of course, one of the most important parts of your pregnancy wardrobe is an item that won’t be on display, that’s right it’s the humble maternity bra. The importance of this essential bit of pack is not to be underestimated, especially as it’s not just your bump that will be growing bigger !
A well fitted, comfortable maternity bra will keep you supported, without digging into you. During pregnancy underwired bras are not recommended, so having the right support is even more important. Don’t forget to get measured regularly, as your bra size is likely to increase a few times during your pregnancy. Whatever your maternity style, the main thing to consider is how you feel in what you’re wearing, if it makes you feel good, and it’s comfortable then go for it.