The Other Side [Video] – The Good Men Project
By Omeleto . . Like many children in Ethiopia, Abel and his younger brother spent many years growing up together in an orphanage in Ethiopia. But at the dawn of adulthood, Abel soon "graduated" from the institution, leaving Kiya behind, along with his warm mentor Mihret. Abel will also face life on the streets, where […]

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Like many children in Ethiopia, Abel and his younger brother spent many years growing up together in an orphanage in Ethiopia. But at the dawn of adulthood, Abel soon "graduated" from the institution, leaving Kiya behind, along with his warm mentor Mihret. Abel will also face life on the streets, where he will likely rely on crime for a living and deal with daily threats of violence and uncertainty.

Feeling bitter and rebellious, Abel struggles with the reality of never having been adopted - a fate many Ethiopian orphans face, in a country where five percent of its total population are orphans and where official policies have ended. international adoptions in 2018. He will also face discrimination because orphans are viewed with suspicion and shame.

Kiya still hopes to find a family, but Abel is still trying to prepare his brother for a more realistic future. When a prospective adoptive couple threatens to break up the brothers, their future as a family is on the line.

Writer-director Josh Leong's compelling social drama is at the heart of a story about family ties, skillfully weaving a sensitive and resonant story about love and loyalty between brothers while highlighting a difficult social reality to which far too many children are faced -on one corner of the globe.

Many social dramas can switch to didactics, where the characters become puppets who espouse ideas and symbolize positions instead of feeling, thinking and acting like real human beings. But the excellent writing and directing avoids that trap, carefully delineating the emotional journey of two young men facing a precipice in their lives - a precipice that they are often powerless to change, but which they owe it to themselves. adapt, with few resources to draw on.

The making of films, too, has an immediacy and liveliness, from the pocket camera to the editing that juxtaposes scenes from Abel's life for maximum surprise and energy. The narrative impetus, however, is character-driven, with Abel making choices that speak to his fear and despair. While the format is short, Abel has multifaceted complexity here, clearly loving his brother but pragmatic about what he needs to do to prepare for his future transition.

It is brought to life by an excellent performance by actor Ethan Herisse, who was last seen in Ava DuVernay's award-winning limited series, When They See Us and who forcefully evokes the struggle to deal with his bitterness and anger. interior while confronting the innocence and hopes of his brother. . His love for his brother and his choices on the streets are at odds - and put him in confrontation not only with himself, but with the person he loves most.

What makes "The Other Side" particularly powerful as a narrative is not only its powerful portrayal of a difficult reality for many children in Ethiopia, but also how it becomes a heartbreaking portrayal of hope: how the hope is lost, but also how it is kept, even with the most fragile and tenuous realities that are beyond the control of these children.

The ending of "The Other Side" honors this tension by not arranging its narrative questions with simple and neat answers. A question mark hangs over Abel's ultimate fate, but it's also true for too many children in Ethiopia, who live in an overburdened system serving far too many orphans. The only hope left is love, but the question is whether it is enough to overcome what will likely be considerable obstacles.

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00:18

What if and if we sneak

00:21

And they're right, I saw one

00:26

sneak like this stop

00:29

can you go and he had a knife

00:32

I bet I'm serious you haven't heard a

00:38

I think he will pretend but

00:49

hey nobody is going to save you there

01:03

you know the exercise the more you say

01:07

nothing more we stay here

01:40

you can't always let your fists do the

02:26

today will be Adam's last submarine with us

02:32

so we want to wish him a happy birthday

02:42

who brought news today there will be

02:46

a couple visiting tomorrow afternoon

02:49

they come all the way from Addis

02:52

so if you want to meet them

02:54

dress in clean clothes smile

02:57

do I think they will look for

03:10

abi wait tabit hey stop go

03:14

get off where are you even going

03:17

no no that again you do not say one

03:21

tomorrow come see the addis people

03:23

and i will keep your secrets

03:26

what you thought was real

03:33

Last year we all waited and no one ever

03:37

but this time and if it's true no look

03:40

even if they came they would go for the

03:41

little ones like dog or ahmad you

03:44

kia when was the last time they chose

03:48

like a mario joseph jose don't even do it

03:50

I wanna leave alright we're all still here

04:04

nobody comes to a letter because they

04:45

why do you even care about being 18

04:50

you never have to deal with me again

04:58

where did you stop

05:01

go talk to kia i don't know what you

05:05

I don't want anything from you already

05:09

i just want you to talk to me

05:29

does he know i don't think he would like it

05:35

because i thought i would give it to

05:38

him when a family comes and goes

05:53

and they have a daughter leah

05:56

so you will already have a sister sister

06:42

i promise i will be there tomorrow

09:38

where have you been give me a break

09:44

you promised that I didn't promise anything

9:50 a.m.

you think waiting here will do

09:54

can you just listen to me for once

09:58

I met them, they were here

10:23

I dream of a chance and with you

10:29

you think i don't dream too much

10:33

you think i don't come by every day

10:35

wondering where our family is

10:39

about the destination of the spectator i

10:48

I wish I could stop running kia

10:56 a.m.

but you and I never had a choice

11:11

i don't do this for me

11:24

I will not ask you that I am 18 years old

12:07

were you too ugly for them

13:11

but i am not ready to go

14:46

Sometimes sweating is not about this

14:53

this is who you become

16:56

I waited for eternity on the

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