Lifetime’s “The Christmas Setup,” Is All About The Power Of Love
Make the yuletide gay? You better believe it (and it's about time)! After years of being eccentric best friend or married uncles, Lifetime is putting an LGBTQ + couple in the limelight of holiday movies. Christmas setup, premieres December 12 at 8 / 7c on Lifetime, stars real married couple Blake Lee (Parks and recreation, […]

Make the yuletide gay? You better believe it (and it's about time)! After years of being eccentric best friend or married uncles, Lifetime is putting an LGBTQ + couple in the limelight of holiday movies. Christmas setup, premieres December 12 at 8 / 7c on Lifetime, stars real married couple Blake Lee (Parks and recreation, Mixology) and Ben Lewis (The arrow, Shadow Hunters) as the main romantic avenues. And as with any good vacation romance, it's all about the power and beauty of love.

Lewis stars as Hugo, a successful lawyer from New York who returns home to Milwaukee for Christmas with his adorable and faithful friend BFF Madelyn (Ellen Wong, GLOW) in tow. Hugo's widowed mother Kate (fabulous Fran Drescher, in full Fran Drescher fashion) is too thrilled to have them at home and immediately puts them to work helping her run the town's Christmas Eve festival. for which she is responsible (because she is of course).

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The Christmas Setup stars Fran Drescher and real couple Blake Lee and Ben Lewis. (Lifetime)

Christmas setup premieres December 12 at 8 / 7c on Lifetime

(This post is in a paid partnership with Lifetime, but the review and opinions are 100% mine.)

The cute date happens right away: Patrick (Lee) - the "Mr. Popular 'Hugo crushed in high school who returned to Milwaukee after knocking him rich in Silicon Valley and is now a well-to-do philanthropist - delivers Kate's Christmas tree, and the sparks that instantly fly between those two - there threaten to burn it down.

(“Straight?” Hugo asks Patrick, while he's under the tree trying to put him in the stand. “Excuse me?” Patrick said. “The tree”, Hugo clarifies quickly, but the voltage that bursts is electrifying.)

From there, we cycle through the fun of the Hugo and Patrick saga, which includes all the usual and extravagant aspects of the holiday love stories we love: over-decorating, city festival, rendezvous you incredibly romantic with the snow and cocoa heat, a job dilemma, awkward chants and a predicament almost ruins everything, but doesn't do it (because of course it doesn't).

Christmas setup, however, hits differently from most others. Is it because of the main LGBTQ + story? No, although it is certainly a genuine difference from what we are used to seeing in these movies.

What refreshes me is the honesty - from the very beginning - of Hugo and Patrick's feelings. They got down there right away. The two are comfortable enough in their own skin that hiding their feelings or playing games - with themselves or with each other - isn't something they feel interested in or have time for. Like I said: refreshing!

Add in some city mystery, such an incredible cute love story on the B-line, and of course, the outrageously enthusiastic interference from Fran Drescher ... uh, matchmaking ... mother, and you've got the one of the best vacation love movies I've seen in a long time. Life is so right about this one: Christmas setup is full of real moments of authenticity - not to mention a drag queen! - and it's a wonderfully brilliant reminder that love, and everything worth having, is worth fighting for.

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